Just Say So!!

Why is it that some men feel the need to lie about their intentions? Why can't they just be honest about what they want? They either don't know or don't care about the pain they cause when they earn a womans trust, make her feel secure, and as soon as she lets down her guard..BAM HE'S GONE!!!
If hes looking for sex..Just say so
If hes not looking for anything serious..Just say so
But its so unfair to be a woman stuck with a bunch of unresolved wondering what the hell happened.
Then as soon as a woman lashes out over the pain or shows any aftershocks what so ever, she considered having "baggage".
Well HELL YES SHE HAS BAGGAGE!!
When you lie to someone their choices are taken away. Men who lie about their intentions or even have a change a heart but fail to let the woman know about it, are taking her choices away. She is not given the choice by the truth to say, "Hey, you know what, I like you but a physical relationship is not for me. Thanks for the interest though."
Instead she is mislead into thinking he wants what she does..when actually all he really wants is to see her naked a few times..then hes bored and finished.
Men don't seem to care to understand that type of pain. To be left behind like trash or an old toy without an explaination. They seem to be able to walk away so easily.
Not caring about the bleeding bodies they leave behind for the next poor sap to try to patch up.